Editor’s note: Although this article uses male pronouns, the advice applies to all sexual orientations and gender identities.
How can I feel less awkward talking dirty?
If you’re feeling nervous about saying things out loud, she recommends trying sexting first. “Describe what you’re looking forward to sexually or what you enjoyed about sex last time you connected. This is an easy way to ease into saying things out loud,” she says.
What kinds of things should I say?
Some submissions she received:
-“Spontaneously during, say what I did to make her wet/orgasm in a previous experience.”
-“Simple. Men want to hear they are desired and giving pleasure … but dirtier.”
-“Slowly saying my name with heavy breathing is a huge turn-on.”
-“Keywords: pussy, panties, c*ck, lick, f*ck. A little raunchiness is OK.”
-“We WANT you to talk dirty. If it turns out cheesy, laughing together is GOOD!”
OK, but now can you be super specific? Give me some lines, pls!
-‘I love the way you taste in my mouth.’
-‘Your cock feels so good in my hand, I love feeling how hard you get.’
-‘I can’t wait to have you sit on my face tonight.’
-‘You look and feel so beautiful when you cum.’
-‘I want to fuck your sweet round ass all night.’
-‘I want you to cum so hard in my pussy tonight, baby.’
-‘You are the most beautiful woman. I love the way my cock feels inside you, my queen.’
-‘I love how you taste baby, I want your fullness inside my mouth.’
-‘I want to fuck you so hard tonight.’
-‘You sound so sexy when I’m going down on you.’
-‘I loved cuddling you after we made love last night, baby.’
-‘I feel so connected to you after making love. I can’t wait to do it again, my love.’
-‘You’re so beautiful, thank you for opening your pussy and your heart to me. I love you.’