Here is the thing, ladies: not every guy you meet is the perfect match. After watching Netflix’s new documentary “The Tinder Swindler”, we are pretty sure that you are paying attention to a few RED FLAGS. If you are currently dating someone and you don’t feel 100% sure about him, you need to keep your eyes open. Most probably HE IS NOT THAT INTO YOU! Some send signs on purpose, because they do not want to tell you straight away that they are not that fond of you, so it is up to you to decode the signs.
See below the signs that definitely scream for RED FLAGS.
Busy Busy Busy
If a guy is into you, he will always make sure to find time for you. If you start chatting with a guy that keeps saying “I have a friend who is coming over tonight”, “I have a business lunch or dinner”, “I have made plans with my friends for the weekend”, “I will call you later”, or “I do not have time now, I will text you later”, you better stay away from him, because he will not give you the chance to meet in person.
Not excited to meet you
If you ask a guy to go on a date or meet somewhere and he gives vague responses like “Oh, yeah”, “Hmm, yeah, sure”, “Yeah, why not”, that is definitely a RED FLAG.
Keeps cancelling on you
If he has cancelled on you more than once, pay attention to the reasons he’s giving you. If he gives weird reasons, you should definitely forget about him, because you will never get the chance to meet him.
You are the one who always writes first
If with a simple mathematics you realise you’re the one that always starts a conversation on the phone, it is a clear sign that he is not really that committed. Try not to write to him and see if you will get any feedback from him. If not, move along…
He never offers to meet
If you have started chatting with a guy from any social media channel, or you both matched on Tinder and notice that he is never offering to meet, you should delete him forever. No one wants a guy who just enjoys chatting, but never offers to meet.
He texts back only once in a while
If you write to someone and the response comes after 5 hours, 3 days, 2 weeks, he is clearly telling you STOP texting me. No one is that busy!
You are his last-minute plan
If you notice that most of the times he writes or calls to go somewhere with him in short notice, then you are his Plan B. “Hey, you want to see a movie at the theatre as I have two tickets?”. “Wanna go out in 15 minutes?” For sure, none of his friends were available to go with him, so he asked you. You do not want to be his afterthought!