The thing to remember is that you can bring as many tricks and surprises to the bedroom as you want, but a big part of making a sexual experience incredible is making sure that he/she is having an amazing time. So reading these sex tips that can also be a great way to get you in the mood.
1. Kissing, stroking and after sex
At first, allow only kissing and holding each other. Gradually move on to touching and stroking each other, masturbation, oral sex, or whatever feels right for you. Avoid orgasm. At the end of the agreed waiting period, allow yourselves the pleasure of orgasm through any kind of sex you like.
2. Stop thinking and let your body take over
Stop judging and worrying about whether you are doing sex. There is no right or wrong way to be a lover. Simply be present and aware of your body sensations and be open to exploring the range of erotic pleasures.
3. Do it somewhere you know you shouldn’t
The monotony of the bedroom or the couch can kill a sex life. Try changing the location, and I’m not talking from the bed to the floor. The next time you go to your friend’s house for a dinner party, sneak away to their bathroom. Go oral or use your fingers for an old-school makeout vibe. The key here is to create an exciting and risky experience that will ignite some fresh energy between you both.
4. Lead with a compliment
“I love the way you…”) before suggesting a new move. Compliments during sex will help your sex life.
5. Try watching porn together
Maybe don’t have porn playing all the time, but once in a while it might be a good way to switch things up